Don't Be Afraid of Saying Yes

So during an interview the other day, my partner offered a candidate a cup of tea and the candidate accepted. It's funny but seeing something this simple was kind of shocking to me. I guess the problem is, I'm in a mindset where I don't like to cause work for other people. I'd rather turn down their offer of something I want, than impose upon them in the slightest.

It's reminiscent of a book I read, "15 Minutes in Heaven" or something along those lines. In the book, the narrator talked about how he got in a devastating car accident and was completely crippled in the hospital. Despite being a person who devoted his life to helping others and seeking to serve them, the man was incapable of accepting other peoples invitations to do friendly gestures for him and to allow them to help himself. When someone would offer him a book or a drink or anything, he would immediately turn them down.

Finally, a visiting friend looked at the man and said "Listen, these people are offering their help to you because they want to help you. You are being selfish by refusing their help and by believing you can do everything on your own."

A Shot of Self Belief

Have a firm belief in yourself is the most powerful gift one can reward oneself. This is the best accolade one can be appraised; this person has firm self belief.

In spiritual affirmation studies, self doubt is a highly negative word that brings a person down and out. You should trust in yourself and you don't have be afraid of taking responsibilities. Taking responsibilities make you grow up and be a planner or thicker. This brings you to the next level of life in the real world.

Be confident that whatever happens you will be able to push yourself up and focus on the things that need to be done because you're a winner and don't allow anyone to make you think differently.

If you have a positive outlook you will know how to channel your talents to fulfilling goals so that you will always have something to fall back on.

Always believe in yourself because you're the only one who can make yourself a winner. Conjure the power of the universe to give you what you desire by using the secret of visualization and spiritual affirmation. You can do it because you are more than you think you are and you deserve more in life.